"Life is about not knowing, having to change, taking the moment and making the best of it without knowing what's going to happen next."

Fatherhood Secrets in Pictures

Within decades of marriage, there may come times that your family will look like this, and you mustn't be too chauvinistic to accept it and make the most of it.

You also need to realize that if you begin to redefine fatherhood culture as the illustration above does, the initiative to do so is likely to bring about results that oppose good fatherhood.

Help your kids feel secure by being decisive. Say yes as often as you can, but don't be afraid to say no when you need to. And when you do say no, don't allow yourself to be swayed or out-talked so easily. 

Be yourself--the person you know best. Compromise just a little when needed, but stick to your guns, because the day will come that your child will depend on your example.


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